The Power in our Unwillingness

I love the power we have as mothers to transform fear into not-willingness.   This isn’t for all types of fear.   This is for when we are feeling fear because we’re thinking of something that we don’t want to happen.   For example, I was feeling some...

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Mothering as a Transformational Journey

I believe that Mothering is designed to be a transformational journey.   And yet, it isn’t often see this way, particularly in a culture that:   Values the maiden above all other stages of womanhood; Doesn’t value the mother; Denigrates the Maga and the...

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Transformation Through Mothering

Mothering in 2019 can seem like a combination of guilt and comparing ourselves to linen-clad families on Instagram.   We long ago lost the deep knowing that being a mother is sacred.   Our child/ren’s self-concept and life journey are profoundly affected by...

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Hitches and Glitches Led Me to Develop These Practices

Over the past 5 years, I’ve learnt a lot about following my calling, and what I can do when challenging things show up.   I’d already learnt prior to 5 years ago, that if I didn’t respond to my callings, the Messages from Life would get louder and my refusing the...

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Our Deepest Hurts Can Become Our Biggest Gifts

Sometimes, what we feel called to offer the world can be things that we have loved since we were children. For example, you might have always loved art or animals or flowers and want to share those passions with others.   On the other hand, often our deepest...

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Making a Living Making a Difference

I’m so incredibly grateful that I feel so deeply fulfilled.   Every day, I talk to people, listen to people, write about what I love, create courses, do live trainings, and develop my models and methodologies.   I do this in ways that fit in with my life as...

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Soul Calling, Internalised Voices and Inner Children

That divine download you receive - the idea to write the post, write the book, create a course, start a business, that’s the Calling.   That’s where your Soul is connected with Source.   That aliveness, the flow of energy, the joy, that’s you connected with...

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How Would You Like to Respond to Procrastination?

Would you like to respond to procrastination with judgment, giving up and coercion or with compassionate curiosity, understanding and willingness?   This time 5 years ago, I was longing to do things that I wasn’t doing.   I had more than 25 years of...

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Understanding Procrastination

Do you ever procrastinate on doing something you really want to do?   When you’re procrastinating, do you judge yourself for procrastinating or try to coerce yourself into taking action?   Do you ever enquire deeper, into why you are procrastinating?  ...

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9 Ways to Avoid Overpowering Your Child

1. Remember that our children naturally want to cooperate. If they aren’t cooperating, there’s something important going on for them that we need to understand and address before they can return to their natural willingness to cooperate.   2. Listen to what you...

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Three Causes of Powerlessness in Parenting

How many of your most painful parenting moments involved you feeling powerless?   Powerlessness is deeply painful and can come from thoughts, present moment needs or past feelings.   1. Thoughts ~ Were you telling yourself things like, “I can’t do this...

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Parenting at The Intersection of Two Power Paradigms

We are at the tail end of a long long time of power-over in parenting, and a new paradigm of power-with is coming into the world.   In this transition phase, most of us are at the intersection of these two paradigms.   In the old paradigm, parents, who have...

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