Spiritual Bypassing and Repression of the Sublime

Spiritual Bypassing and Repression of the Sublime

I’d like to start by offering us all compassion. The majority of English-speakers grew up in a domination, colonised culture, where only a very narrow band of feelings and experiences are deeply welcomed and valued. This isn’t just a recent phenomenon. The...
Why I don’t say, ‘boundaries’ and what I do say instead

Why I don’t say, ‘boundaries’ and what I do say instead

(and whilst we’re at it, I also don’t say “It’s not okay” and will also explain why!) As a preface, if you love the word ‘boundaries,’ or the phrase “It’s not okay,” I deeply respect and support you in that. This post isn’t about judgment; it’s about an...
My Journey with Will

My Journey with Will

  I’d love to tell you a bit about my journey with Will – sacred power. I wonder if you resonate, particularly if you’re a mother.   I used to feel deeply uncomfortable saying, “no” to anyone’s requests. So I’d say, “yes,” and end up depleted or...
My journey of reclaiming my power

My journey of reclaiming my power

      My journey with reclaiming my power: Freeing myself from the domination system through pregnancy, birth, parenting, learning and following my calling.   As a child and teenager, I was deeply quiet, trembly and introverted.   I also had,...
Supporting our children to stay connected with their sacred power

Supporting our children to stay connected with their sacred power

  I believe we are being invited to shift the domination paradigm of the past 2000 years.   As mothers (and fathers), there are two key ways we can do this – to reclaim our sacred power, and to support our children in staying connected with their...